Aki wrote;

Shame on you!
Idont think you have a right to teach women how to be smart or educated or whatever you do.
Have you thought about how many people could have been saved by the money you used for your first class seat?

hum…….!?

 

Yes I did Aki… pls read the title of my post again. It tells it all. (THE AFTER-THOUGHTS: AFTER THE TRAUMA, THEN COMES THE GUILT)

 

How do you know what I am actually doing now to help?

Aki, tell me what have you personally done to help, since the disaster happened? I would be happy to help you and to join force with you.

Do not be angry right now, save your energy for good use.

 

I did not need to approve your comment but I did to show you respect by giving you a voice on my blog.

 

I have people sheltered in my home in Japan because mine is safer that they own home… and others because they cannot commute because of the train canceled. Would YOU actually let people live inside your home and sleep in your bed, wearing your clothes without you being there, as I do since the earthquake? I have also given lots of clothes, blankets, food and medicine to help. Have you yet?

 

Do not judge me or others Aki. It is not fair….. I actually do not agree with you when you say that you do not think that I have the right to teach women how to be smart or educated…. I teach women to take quick and wise decisions in a country where women are not taught how to think as an individual and most of the time they regret not having taken the right opportunity at the right time.

I had to get on that flight because of my children, I have 3 sons and a loving family. I had to protect myself in order to protect them. I knew that the longest I waited the more difficult it would become to get out of Japan. The fact that I can actually afford to buy my own first class ticket…… it is one of the fundamental part of my teaching to Japanese women in Japan.

I teach them to earn their own money, so that they can hold a gold credit card and maybe be able to be safe in a moment of crisis! I teach them to make quick & wise decisions, to be independent and to think as a leader.

 

I have people flying to Singapore and helping them find peace right now. I am busy trying to help and comfort. Do not loose your precious time basjing others Aki, open your heart… feel the need for peace. People need peace right now, not any kind of hate or envy.

 

I will not reject any comment on my blog, also please feel free to talk to me if you disagree.

 

Much love Aki, and I mean it.

ines